96 lines
3.8 KiB
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96 lines
3.8 KiB
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created: 2025-10-22 10:04
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updated: 2025-10-23 19:49
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1. A boundary of mine is
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2. A life goal of mine
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3. A quick rant about
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4. A random fact I love is
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5. A shower thought I recently had
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6. All I ask is that you
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7. Apparently, my life's soundtrack is
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8. Best travel story
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9. Biggest risk I've taken
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10. Change my mind about
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11. Dating me is like
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12. Do you agree or disagree that
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13. Don't hate me if I
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14. First round is on me if
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15. Give me travel tips for
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16. Green flags I look for
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17. Guess the song
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18. How to pronounce my name
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19. I bet you can't
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20. I feel most supported when
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21. I geek out on
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22. I get myself out of a funk by
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23. I go crazy for
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24. I hype myself up by
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25. I know the best spot in town for
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26. I recently discovered that
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27. I want someone who
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28. I wind down by
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29. I wish more people knew
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30. I won't shut up about
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31. I'll brag about you to my friends if
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32. I'll fall for you if
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33. I'll give you the set up, you guess the punchline
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34. I'll pick the topic if you start the conversation
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35. I'm convinced that
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36. I'm looking for
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37. I'm weirdly attracted to
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38. If loving this is wrong, I don't want to be right
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39. Let's debate this topic
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40. Let's make sure we're on the same page about
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41. Most spontaneous thing I've done
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42. My BFF's take on why you should date me
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43. My Love Language is
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44. My best Dad Joke
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45. My best celebrity impression
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46. My biggest date fail
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47. My cry-in-the-car song is
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48. My favorite line from a movie
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49. My friends ask me for advice about
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50. My greatest strength
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51. My happy place
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52. My last journal entry was about
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53. My most controversial opinion is
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54. My most irrational fear
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55. My self-care routine is
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56. My simple pleasures
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57. My therapist would say I
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58. Never have I ever
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59. One thing I'll never do again
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60. Proof I have musical talent
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61. Saying "Hi!" in as many languages I know
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62. Something that's non-negotiable for me is
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### General advise
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### Good prompts
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- Prompts that allow **self-disclosure of something unique** (originality)
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E.g., “A shower thought I recently had…”, “Two truths and a lie…”
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- Prompts that encourage showing a **sense of purpose / values / goals**
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E.g., “This year I really want to…”, “My life goal is…”
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- Prompts that clarify what you’re **looking for in a partner / relationship**
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E.g., “I want someone who…”, “If we match it’s because…”
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- Prompts that invite **conversation / allow someone to respond** (less studied but implied)
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E.g., “Ask me about…” or “You should go out with me to save me from…”
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- Prompts that balance personality (humour, wit) + substance (values/goal)
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Because originality and meaning both matter.
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### Bad propmps
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- Prompts purely about “fun facts” without linking to values may engage but may not filter for compatibility.
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- Prompts that are too generic or cliché lack originality — and the originality study showed originality matters. [ResearchGate](https://www.researchgate.net/publication/364420243_Originality_in_online_dating_profile_texts_How_does_perceived_originality_affect_impression_formation_and_what_makes_a_text_original?utm_source=chatgpt.com)
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- Prompts that devote _all_ text to self-promotion (hobbies, “Paragliding, yoga, indie bands…” as in the Berkeley study) but omit partner-preferences are less effective. [Haas News | Berkeley Haas](https://newsroom.haas.berkeley.edu/research/research-reveals-the-key-to-an-irresistible-online-dating-profile/?utm_source=chatgpt.com)
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- Relying solely on text and ignoring visuals: pictures remain highly predictive of success. [Arno](https://arno.uvt.nl/show.cgi?fid=155361&utm_source=chatgpt.com)
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