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Introduction
Marilyn Monroe could switch between Marilyn and Norma Jean Baker in an instance. Her magnetism could be switched on and off, just like that. The idea being charisma is a skill that can be learned not some innate gift. Charisma is learned behavior, a result of specific nonverbal behaviors. Steve jobs went for nerd to rock star CEO, same for Elon Musk. When meeting someone new we asses power and friendliness. Being charismatic means projecting warmth, power and presence.
Presence
Presence cannot be faked. If your mind wonders the other will notice. Stay in the present moment use grounding if you have to.