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+1. A boundary of mine is  
+2. A life goal of mine  
+3. A quick rant about  
+4. A random fact I love is  
+5. A shower thought I recently had  
+6. All I ask is that you  
+7. Apparently, my life's soundtrack is  
+8. Best travel story  
+9. Biggest risk I've taken  
+10. Change my mind about  
+11. Dating me is like  
+12. Do you agree or disagree that  
+13. Don't hate me if I  
+14. First round is on me if  
+15. Give me travel tips for  
+16. Green flags I look for  
+17. Guess the song  
+18. How to pronounce my name  
+19. I bet you can't  
+20. I feel most supported when  
+21. I geek out on  
+22. I get myself out of a funk by  
+23. I go crazy for  
+24. I hype myself up by  
+25. I know the best spot in town for  
+26. I recently discovered that  
+27. I want someone who  
+28. I wind down by  
+29. I wish more people knew  
+30. I won't shut up about  
+31. I'll brag about you to my friends if  
+32. I'll fall for you if  
+33. I'll give you the set up, you guess the punchline  
+34. I'll pick the topic if you start the conversation  
+35. I'm convinced that  
+36. I'm looking for  
+37. I'm weirdly attracted to  
+38. If loving this is wrong, I don't want to be right  
+39. Let's debate this topic  
+40. Let's make sure we're on the same page about  
+41. Most spontaneous thing I've done  
+42. My BFF's take on why you should date me  
+43. My Love Language is  
+44. My best Dad Joke  
+45. My best celebrity impression  
+46. My biggest date fail  
+47. My cry-in-the-car song is  
+48. My favorite line from a movie  
+49. My friends ask me for advice about  
+50. My greatest strength  
+51. My happy place  
+52. My last journal entry was about  
+53. My most controversial opinion is  
+54. My most irrational fear  
+55. My self-care routine is  
+56. My simple pleasures  
+57. My therapist would say I  
+58. Never have I ever  
+59. One thing I'll never do again  
+60. Proof I have musical talent  
+61. Saying "Hi!" in as many languages I know  
+62. Something that's non-negotiable for me is
+
+### General advise
+
+### Good prompts
+
+- Prompts that allow **self-disclosure of something unique** (originality)  
+    E.g., “A shower thought I recently had…”, “Two truths and a lie…”
+    
+- Prompts that encourage showing a **sense of purpose / values / goals**  
+    E.g., “This year I really want to…”, “My life goal is…”
+    
+- Prompts that clarify what you’re **looking for in a partner / relationship**  
+    E.g., “I want someone who…”, “If we match it’s because…”
+    
+- Prompts that invite **conversation / allow someone to respond** (less studied but implied)  
+    E.g., “Ask me about…” or “You should go out with me to save me from…”
+    
+- Prompts that balance personality (humour, wit) + substance (values/goal)  
+    Because originality and meaning both matter.
+### Bad propmps
+- Prompts purely about “fun facts” without linking to values may engage but may not filter for compatibility.
+    
+- Prompts that are too generic or cliché lack originality — and the originality study showed originality matters. [ResearchGate](https://www.researchgate.net/publication/364420243_Originality_in_online_dating_profile_texts_How_does_perceived_originality_affect_impression_formation_and_what_makes_a_text_original?utm_source=chatgpt.com)
+    
+- Prompts that devote _all_ text to self-promotion (hobbies, “Paragliding, yoga, indie bands…” as in the Berkeley study) but omit partner-preferences are less effective. [Haas News | Berkeley Haas](https://newsroom.haas.berkeley.edu/research/research-reveals-the-key-to-an-irresistible-online-dating-profile/?utm_source=chatgpt.com)
+    
+- Relying solely on text and ignoring visuals: pictures remain highly predictive of success. [Arno](https://arno.uvt.nl/show.cgi?fid=155361&utm_source=chatgpt.com)
+
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