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1. A boundary of mine is
2. A life goal of mine
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59. One thing I'll never do again
60. Proof I have musical talent
61. Saying "Hi!" in as many languages I know
62. Something that's non-negotiable for me is
### General advise
### Good prompts
- Prompts that allow **self-disclosure of something unique** (originality)
E.g., “A shower thought I recently had…”, “Two truths and a lie…”
- Prompts that encourage showing a **sense of purpose / values / goals**
E.g., “This year I really want to…”, “My life goal is…”
- Prompts that clarify what you’re **looking for in a partner / relationship**
E.g., “I want someone who…”, “If we match it’s because…”
- Prompts that invite **conversation / allow someone to respond** (less studied but implied)
E.g., “Ask me about…” or “You should go out with me to save me from…”
- Prompts that balance personality (humour, wit) + substance (values/goal)
Because originality and meaning both matter.
### Bad propmps
- Prompts purely about “fun facts” without linking to values may engage but may not filter for compatibility.
- Prompts that are too generic or cliché lack originality — and the originality study showed originality matters. [ResearchGate](https://www.researchgate.net/publication/364420243_Originality_in_online_dating_profile_texts_How_does_perceived_originality_affect_impression_formation_and_what_makes_a_text_original?utm_source=chatgpt.com)
- Prompts that devote _all_ text to self-promotion (hobbies, “Paragliding, yoga, indie bands…” as in the Berkeley study) but omit partner-preferences are less effective. [Haas News | Berkeley Haas](https://newsroom.haas.berkeley.edu/research/research-reveals-the-key-to-an-irresistible-online-dating-profile/?utm_source=chatgpt.com)
- Relying solely on text and ignoring visuals: pictures remain highly predictive of success. [Arno](https://arno.uvt.nl/show.cgi?fid=155361&utm_source=chatgpt.com)
62. Something that's non-negotiable for me is