diff --git a/Personal/Projects/Dating/First Date Preparation.md b/Personal/Projects/Dating/First Date Preparation.md
index b172fe6..4139785 100644
--- a/Personal/Projects/Dating/First Date Preparation.md
+++ b/Personal/Projects/Dating/First Date Preparation.md
@@ -1,6 +1,6 @@
---
created: 2025-12-02
-updated: 2025-12-02
+updated: 2025-12-24
---
# First Date Preparation
@@ -152,6 +152,43 @@ Instead of jumping to a new question, dig deeper into what they share:
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+## Date Reflections
+
+### Date 1 — December 2024
+
+**Overall**: Went well. We had fun, laughed, and talked about both light and serious topics. Decided mutually not to continue — not enough in common.
+
+**What went well**:
+- Conversation flowed naturally
+- Could discuss serious topics
+- Anxiety disappeared once we actually met — everything felt normal from that point on
+
+**What didn't work**:
+- Limited common ground. Even shared interests (running) came from opposite motivations — she ran for family half-marathon tradition but doesn't actually enjoy it or being alone with her thoughts. For me it's the opposite.
+- Little chemistry or spark
+
+**Lessons learned**:
+1. **Anxiety peaks before, not during** — the nervousness leading up to meeting her dissolved the moment we met. The anticipation is worse than the reality.
+2. **Shared activities ≠ shared values** — surface-level common interests don't guarantee compatibility if the underlying motivations differ
+3. **Chemistry needs active development** — can't rely on natural spark alone; something to work on
+
+**Action items for next dates**:
+- [ ] Prepare answers to predictable questions:
+ - "What are you looking for?" (in dating/relationship)
+ - Housing/living situation context
+- [ ] Be more proactive with communication before and after dates
+- [ ] Work on building chemistry/spark — don't just rely on conversation flow
+
+---
+
+### Upcoming: January 27, 2025
+
+- [ ] Apply lessons from Date 1
+- [ ] Have prepared answers ready
+- [ ] Initiate more pre-date contact
+
+---
+
## Related Notes
- [[Anxiety]] - Deep dive on dating anxiety and coping strategies
- [[The Charisma Myth]] - Presence, warmth, and power
diff --git a/Personal/Projects/Running/Running.md b/Personal/Projects/Running/Running.md
index f1c2ab9..d4db405 100644
--- a/Personal/Projects/Running/Running.md
+++ b/Personal/Projects/Running/Running.md
@@ -21,7 +21,8 @@ Race Date: March 29, 2025
| 4 | 1.5 km @ WU
→ 4 × 1200 (400 RI) @ Z4
→ 1.5 km CD | 9.0 km | 1.5 km @ WU
→ 5 km @ Z4
→ 1.5 km CD | 8 km | 16 km @ Z3 | 33.0 km |
| 3 | 1.5 km @ WU
→ 5 × 1000 (400 RI) @ Z4
→ 1.5 km CD | 9.6 km | 1.5 km @ WU
→ 10 km @ Z3
→ 1.5 km CD | 13 km | 13 km @ Z3 | 35.6 km |
| 2 | 1.5 km @ WU
→ 3 × 1600 (400 RI) @ Z4
→ 1.5 km CD | 8.6 km | 1.5 km @ WU
→ 5 km @ Z4
→ 1.5 km CD | 8 km | 11 km @ Z3 | 27.6 km |
-| 1 | 1.5 km @ WU → 6 × 400 (400 RI) @ Z5 → 1.5 km CD | 7.4 km | No warm-up / cooldown | - | 10 km Race — Z4-Z5 | 17.4 km |
+| 1 | 1.5 km @ WU → 6 × 400 (400 RI) @ Z5 → 1.5 km CD | 7.4 km | No warm-up / cooldown 5 km | - | 10 km Race — Z4-Z5 | 17.4 km |
+| | | | | | | |
### Additional Filler Weeks (Use as needed)